Consistency Tips

… and $2000 in Essential oils for 5 Bucks plus a WIN RECIPE for your house

How was Easter? Do you celebrate Easter or rather Resurrection Day we like to call it in our house. Our daughter Sarah Grace’s birthday was this weekend so we had fun making the whole weekend special for her. She wanted a cake with pink flowers so against my better judgement I bought a Rainbow sprinkle cake and this chemical filled, artificially made pink cake writing stuff. Here is my results.


You can laugh at my art work if you want. The cake was over the top sweet and she couldn’t even finish one piece. My son on the other hand had too many pieces and the next morning woke up with an awful belly ache. He was really hurting so I rubbed some of my natural remedies on his belly which helped a little bit, then he was really hurting so I gave him a capsule full of my natural remedies and within 10 minutes he threw up once. Within 30 minutes no more stomach pain and 3 hours later he was out riding his bike and back to his old cheerful self. Puke gets a bad rap but I think it is the body’s way of getting rid of poisons. I believe my capsule of natural remedy helped the body wake up to what it had to do.

$2000 in Essential oils for 5 Dollars

Sounds too good to be true, but that is only because of two amazing women. Kathy Kouwe and Regina Pruitt. Kathy donated some very rare and precious Out of Stock Essential oil Kits to Regina Pruitt’s fundraiser. Regina has lived a miralce life with Cystic Fibrosis for 40 plus years and now is ready for a lung transplant. If you want to know more about this special fundraiser and how you can win 10 different Precious Rare Essential oils Kits visit our Facebook Event here for the details and how to Play to Win!

(Copy & paste this link into your browser if the one above doesn’t work:

Do it ASAP please and share with OILY Friends please. Regina is waiting and it’s getting very close to her transplant operation and she needs our support.

BOOTCAMP – Life, Business, Health, Homeschool

This week starts the beginning of my Homeschool Bootcamp. I am grateful for this inexpensive resource. I really struggle with consistency in many areas of my life. My business practices, my health habits, parenting, and now homeschool. I am a good starter, get a plan, even organize and then something happens to get me off track and boom I am behind, off course, or feeling too overwhelmed to do anything. Does that happen to you? Or do you get distracted by the next new shiny business program or trainer, new curriculum, new eating plan and never do anything enough to see if it will work. Here is my tip to you from this week’s Bootcamp Message:

“Until you have tried something consistently for a period of time in a consistent way you have no idea if it works….. “

Consistency and sticking to it will allow you to gather enough data not only to see if something works but to solve problems too.


Pick one thing from one area you struggle in and do it consistently all week. Here are some ideas to get you started:

  • Health:
    • Drink ________ oz of water every day.
    • Walk 15 minutes everyday.
    • Bring your lunch everyday this week.
    • Diffuse and breathe in your favorite Essential oils 15 minutes a day.
  • Work/Business:
    • Eat the Frog and do the one thing on your TO DO List that is the hardest.
    • Set your work hours this week and stick to them.
  • Finances:
    • Do a menu plan for the week and grocery shop those foods only.
    • Skip getting coffee, sodas, or drinks this week.
    • Have a budget meeting with your spouse or loved one this week.
  • Parenting or Homeschooling:
    • Smile at your kids a lot this week even when they frustrate you.
    • Encourage your kids 10 times more than you correct them.
    • Speak words of LIFE over them daily… (even if those things are not true yet) YOU ARE BRILLIANT READER, YOU ARE SO KIND, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE GOING TO CHANGE THE WORLD, GOD MADE YOU SPECIAL

Now remember pick one thing… don’t overwhelm yourself. Just one DO-ABLE thing this week and let me know what it is in the comments.


If you follow me on Instagram drmarystarr you might be able to tell I like to cook. I do my best to cook healthier options and get my kids involved too. This week we had a epic Failure of gluten free Bananna Bread (which still got eaten) and an EPIC WIN.

Here is the WIN Recipe Video it’s a Delicious Egg Frittata (which is like a quiche without the crust)

The actual recipe and measurements will be in the Description of the Video. I used Chicken Sausage and it was great. Also go light on the Basil if you have kids, it’s a bit spicy!

Here is mine:

Spiritual Life

Lastly let’s talk about your Spiritual Life. How is yours? Do you have one just on the weekends but the rest of the week forget about it?

This Easter Sunday we went to our new church we finally decided on here in Silicon Valley. We have been attending regularly for about a month and God has really spoke wisdom to us each week. This week we were shoved into the pews as our church was maxed out with people. About 30% of those attending were here on this special and important Holiday. But I also felt something else in my spirit. I also felt that many are searching for something greater than themselves. In an area of the world where some of the smartest, wealthiest, and most successful people live these individuals are recognizing that they will never be enough. They will never have enough, be successful enough, give enough to be fulfilled. Because true Joy, PEACE and FULFILLMENT don’t come from our WORKS but from our Father in Heaven.

Are you searching for that Peace, Joy and Fulfillment in your life? What if I told you that all those are possible to have in your life no matter what your life circumstances are. It’s true… You might enjoy this message from the New Year by Steven Furtick

Word of God Weekly Verses

I would like to start learning a Bible Verse weekly because I know the power of these words especially when spoken and prayed. They give us life, protection, healing and so much more. Even when we don’t believe in our conscious minds yet for something like healing, peace, restoration just praying/saying the Words can change and ReNEW your mind, heart, and life. So here is this weeks. Print it out, write it on sticky notes, write it with dry erase markers on your mirrors.

This verse is said a lot of different ways depending on what version of the bible you read. I am going to keep things simple for me and my kids to remember. You do what is best for you.

“The Lord is my Strength, my Shield from every danger. I trust in Him with all my Heart”
Psalm 28:7 (NLT)

I pray that you have an amazing week, month and year. Until we talk again you are in my prayers. God bless you mightily;

Mary Starr Carter
The Total Wellness Doc and Mom

Help Regina Pruitt

Thanks for your concern this week. It was a little scary here in California. Starting with last weekend we got the worst storm of the decade they said. Because of flight cancellations I missed my Mommy weekend retreat to Young Living’s Beauty School. I was bumming but it all worked out. Then we had terrible flooding here in San Jose and 14,000 people were evacuated from their homes. Homelessness is already a huge thing around here. Because housing is so costly families and individuals can find themselves living in vehicles, in RV’s and campgrounds because they can’t afford to rent or own a home. It is sad. My husband and I realize how very blessed we are in more ways than financially.

Health is another way we realize how blessed we are. I haven’t had to take any drug or over the counter medicine in 17 years. My kids have never had an antibiotic or drug store medicine, and the only drug my husband has used in the past decade is aspirin. In contrast this woman Regina Pruitt has been on medications most of her life. She has Cystic Fibrosis a genetic disorder effecting the lungs. Most CF patients do not live past their late 20’s but Regina has beaten all the odds she is 43 years old. She has two precious boys her youngest about to graduate high school, she went to school to be a Physician’s assistant and has worked part time in the field, she has an awesome husband, and she is in amazing shape. But all of her life she has had to live on many many different drugs, she has been in an out of the hospital hundreds of times and because of some of the drugs she takes it makes her more susceptible to other side effects and diseases which sadly leads to more medicines. She has no choice about taking drugs they keep her alive…. But many of us do have a choice.

What do you mean Mary, you might be saying. I am saying that 80% of the prescription drugs that are taken legally are due to our lifestyle choices. Things that we choose to do or not to do are causing our illness. We have a choice to do things that will add to our health or subtract from it. I guess to a point Regina does too, but she chooses to exercise and stay strong and as healthy as she can…. But her reality still insists that she take drugs to live.

I am not writing this to make you feel bad about your weight, smoking, drinking etc. I am writing this to ask for your help. See we have a choice…. Regina doesn’t she needs 2 new lungs or she will die soon. Can you help me support Regina’s quest to get two new lungs. She is on the donor transplant list for new lungs. There out of pocket costs will run anywhere from 75,000 – 100,000 not including missed work and income. They have a You Caring Fund set up at to try to raise the funds. We also have an ESSENTIAL OIL FUNDRAISER going on until March 6th.

Monday February 27th 830pm CENTRAL TIME we have a Fun Essential oils Training Class with lots of giveaways for those who attend live.

Wednesday March 1st 830pm Central time we have An ESSENTIAL OIL BIDDING Challenge that will go on for approximately 1 hr. There will be lots of great Young Living Essential oils, Essential oil books, and Aromatherapy Jewelry.

All profits made from selling Essential oils, and the Oil Bidding will go to the You Caring Fund. We also have a donor who will MATCH $1000 of what we raise…. WAHOO!!!

I believe in Regina. As a doctor of Wellness I see the determination and actions that she has done make her an excellent candidate to receive her lungs and live a full life. I am blessed to have gotten to know her a little bit better and be inspired by her positive attitude, gratitude, and love for life. I know you will be blessed to if you help and get to know her.

So to help go to and Click on GOING to this EVENT and help us by participating, buying or bidding on essential oils, or go directly to Regina’s You Caring fund and donate

I love and appreciate what this community can do for each other.

God Bless your Week.

Mary Starr Carter

The Total Wellness Doc and Mom

Homeschooling is Hard !


I made it through another week of Homeschooling. This was one of the highlights from the week.  It may seem like nothing to you but to me it’s everything. See homeschooling has to be one of the hardest jobs I have taken on. I know I am not that good at it yet. But I also know that I know that I know I need to do this. I need to be doing the HARD THINGS.  I know that I am the best teacher for my children at this moment in time.  And I know that I know that I know God wants me in this place not just for my kids but to refine me too.

I actually have been teaching for more than 20 years. Starting with my American Red Cross days teaching CPR and Babysitting classes, to Teaching Assistant and then into my Essential oils Class Teaching Days.  I estimate I have taught more than 5000 students and hundreds if not a thousand classes.   So it’s hard when I find myself in a place of teaching and not being so good at it.  

I think I may have thought way way early on that this would be a breeze, but it’s not. In fact most days I need my NingXia Nitro and Stress Away to get through the day.  And I am only officially schooling less than 3 hours a day LOL it can’t even be considered a full time job. But everyday that I do it and every week it gets better with little glimmer’s of hope like the video above.  (He’s Reading He’s really reading… kind of)  


My little man 2012

See my oldest son is well ACTIVE.  He is brilliant and caring and sensitive like his dad but he can not sit still for more than 15 minutes or so and that’s a stretch. So traditional schooling was pretty much out. In fact he got kicked out of nursery school when he was 3. They couldn’t deal with a kid who couldn’t sit for 10 minutes to do a craft and didn’t know how to use scissors.  But my dad who was a middle and high school teacher for 35 plus years always said he felt boys matured later than girls and thought boys would benefit to start school a year later.  So I listened to him and let my son start schooling a little later and grow and develop at his own pace.  

I have also learned that our child’s development is much more than what we teach them but also what we feed them.  Sugar, Processed foods, gluten, and milk products all make Joshua’s attention span and learning more challenging.  I notice he is more emotional, has more difficulty in calming down for sleep, and his communication struggles too.  

Recently I was introduced to this book :  


If you know anyone who has children with Asthma, Allergies, is labeled on the Autism spectrum or Asperger’s they have to read this book.  It is full of helpful and effective information. And real life stories that will make you rejoice in hope and cry from the tragedies.  

I pretty much know that if I hadn’t been a Chiropractor and then a Wellness Consultant that my life and son’s life would look a lot different now. My son would have most likely gone to school and have had a label by 5 or 6 years old. Don’t get me wrong I am not against getting help or testing but I am against putting a label on a kid or adult so that they grow up thinking that they can not change and this is how and who they are.

In years of practice I have seen some amazing things done with just diet changes, nutritional supplements, essential oils and Chiropractic !   I have seen a 3 year old non-verbal not crawling begin to walk and talk within 6 weeks of nutritional changes made.  I have seen autistic become more social and communicative, I have seen asthma healed, I have seen allergies eliminated.   I had also seen God’s miraculous healing without any intervention. (Well I guess it’s all God’s healing).  So I never doubt that change can happen and healing can occur. And when I find more resources and tools to help make these changes I want to share them with you.   

Here is something else you may want to look into if you have an easily distractible child, Brain Training!  Here is the Podcast of    Do you Need to Train your Brain ?   I started using some of these ideas this week and I am already starting to see improvement.  

I will continue to learn and grow as a homeschooler and mother who is grooming, feeding, growing kids.  I will continue to help educate parents about the dangers of labeling and drugging.

Here is Larry’s story from Dr Bock’s book. Larry and his wife were bullied into drugging their son when he was 7 years old.  Their son was a good kid at home but struggled in school and was labeled with ADHD.  The teachers threatened if they didn’t get their son on medication for ADHD than they were be in Neglect, Child Services would be called and they could lose both of their children.  Over the years their son’s low dosage of Ritalin increased to the highest dosage 4 times a day.  At 14 their son was a star baseball player and good kid. One day while he was playing on his skateboard he had a heart attack and died.  The autopsy showed direct damage to his heart from the Ritalin and the cause of his death.   WHAT!!!!!

I read that story and thought of the thousands of kids on this drug or other stimulants.  It’s my opinion that we set these kids up for becoming addicted to other stimulants in their teens and early adulthood. Things like  Energy drinks or worse which all of this is setting them up for early health problems or worse.

You can agree or disagree with me in the comments.  And I get that sometimes families wouldn’t survive unless they “calmed down” their kids with these drugs.  I am just saying maybe we can do other things too or instead.  Here is the information again to get the book I talked about and see for yourself.

God Bless,

I will pray for your family’s success;

Mary Starr Carter

The Total Wellness Doc and Mom

Winner Winner Chicken Dinner

Yes I admit. I am in love with my Instant Pot. I believe time is our most valuable resource and using the IP is saving time and literally “making money for my family”. Seriously if you give a value to your time say $20 an hour no matter if you work out of the home, from home or are a stay at home mom your time is valuable. Saving 30 minutes 3 times a week is like making $30 for your family. That time can now be spent doing more valuable things spending QT with the kids or your spouse, working out, learning or working in your Home business and turning that time into CASH.

Buffalo Chicken Sweet Potatoes in the Instant Pot  

So here is a recipe I found that was a winner !  Here is her beautiful picture of Jennifer Robins Creation.



And here is my creation 


Don’t let the looks fool you.  IT WAS DELICIOUS! I modified and doubled the paleo recipe because of the ingredients I had on hand and because I like leftovers for future time savings. I used ¾ of a big onion diced. We used 2.5 lbs of chicken strips not frozen and 2 big sweet potatoes. (I wished I used another ½ of Sweet Potato. The flavors are awesome. We also used Frank’s Red Hot Wing Sauce because that is what we had in the fridge. We used Coconut oil and Ghee and again if you don’t have Ghee use your Coconut oil or I guess you could use Butter. We ate it with Challah bread on Friday night but I would suggest making a big pot of rice or quinoa in the instant pot for the week and use some of that to make the meal go farther and help cool the spiciness. We cooked it for 18 minutes and it was perfect but I think I could have done 17 minutes and kept the sweet potatoes a little more firm. Looks like Jennifer added  some scallions and goat cheese to the top again that might be great if you have them on hand. I don’t suggest adding extra cost if you don’t need to.

Buffalo Chicken Sweet Potatoes in the Instant Pot

Total time < 30 minutes –  Total Cost  < $15    but includes 2 meals  Dinner and Lunch for 2 adults and 2 kids = < $ 2 per serving


2.5 lb chicken breast cut into filet size

¾ of an entire big onion

1 tbsp Coconut to saute onion

2 tbsp Coconut oil

4 tbsp Ghee

6 TBSP Frank’s Red Hot Wing Sauce

2 ½ big Sweet Potatoes or Yams

1 tsp Garlic Salt

¼ tsp Pepper

Go to to find the directions specifically. Again I think with the filets you can use the Poultry setting at 17 minutes. I did add 2 tbsp of water too.

The next day we used the leftovers to make Patias…  That is a made up word my daughter calls anything in a wrap.  Simply heat your tortillas on one side, flip sprinkle some favorite cheese (ours is raw cheddar or Tillamook cheese which I think you can only get here on the West Coast)  and add some of the chicken sweet potato and juice.  Be sure to eat over your plate because the juice can squirt out.


Let me know how this Winner Winner Chicken Dinner turns out of you!



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How to Find the Money for your Next Orlando/Disney Vacation?


I have been blessed to vacation in Orlando and go to Disney more than a dozen times in my adult life.

Most all of these vacations have been coupled with another pre-planned work event that allowed us to write it off on our taxes most all of the hotels fees, travel and even some of the entertainment. I have gone to the parks enough to recognize many ways to save a boat load of money but still have an awesome time. So here are some of my tips that will help you and your family

#1 Get to Go on Vacation              #2 have a blast             #3 save money too!

Most families believe that their dream vacation to Disney World is unattainable because they are living paycheck to paycheck, have a mountain of debt, and or maybe have a larger family and don’t see how they could ever afford that kind of fun for the whole family. If you have this dream don’t give up on it. A dream will stay a dream unless you change some habits, develop some new skills, and work consistently towards it.

My first ever Adult on my own vacation was with my college girlfriends to Niagara Falls. We literally would wake up at 4am on the weekends and go collect cans from all the parties in the dorms and cash them in for 5 cents a can. It was dirty and hard work but we averaged about $10 -$15 a weekend and saved for months until we had over $300 dollars. This bought us 2 nights stay in a hotel, some Niagara Falls Excursions, and a nice dinner.

The next vacation with my same girlfriends was a cruise. We all were going to separate schools at this time and although I was working and going to school I decided to use my first “CREDIT CARD” to pay for the trip. I thought I would pay it back quick …. but that credit card balance and continuous usage would never see a ZERO BALANCE for more then 10 years…. I started a bad habit in my early twenties that I wouldn’t break until my late thirties. So my first advise to you would be DON’T USE CREDIT CARDS TO GO ON VACATION. But now you are asking how do you FIND THE MONEY? It doesn’t grow on trees you know.

Save Money With Essential Oils

#1 Finding the Money:  In Dani Johnsons WAR on Debt Program she says your Dream Vacation is probably in your Pantry. I have to agree when we started using this program we were able to shave more than $250 a month off of our grocery and eating out budget. That is $3000 a year….. And that is a sweet vacation. But if you are drowning in debt than that savings will need to be used to snowball your debt to oblivion. Over these 8 years we have eliminated $327,000 in Debt using the War on Debt and Financial Peace University programs. When you have that monkey off your back you can enjoy your vacations a whole lot more.

My friend and Travel Writer Claudia Looi wrote an inexpensive Ebook that can help you Save $2000 dollars a year for your Vacation. You can get it here on Amazon it’s worth it.

To Find the Money for your vacation you are going to have to Change your Habits, Develop New Skills and Do these things Consistently. I promise you if you do you will be able to travel to more than just Disney World but anywhere in the world you want.

So let’s start there and in my future posts I will share with you about saving on your lodging, eating, and how you can make your whole vacation a tax write off.

Animal Kingdom Jan 2017 3 adults 2 kids Total Spent on Tickets, Food, and Other Stuff $235  (Tickets alone would have been $473) 


We are moving to California


So you may have heard a rumor or seen a vague post on Facebook that my family is moving to California.  It is true we are.  Mid November we will be California Residents.   Why such a radical change and why California?

In late July my husband got a phone call from a personal friend telling him about this position coming available at his company.  He talked quite a bit about the awesomeness of the company, culture, and opportunities.  Although my husband wasn’t looking for a job he was intrigued and kept an open mind and started doing his own investigation.


Have you heard of the company Roku?  Maybe you have one of these devices in your home. A Roku device or Roku TV let’s you watch TV your way.  No more multiple remotes and 10 minutes to figure out how to get what you want.   We have been users of this device for several years now.  This simple inexpensive device makes exercise, cooking, cleaning, homeschooling and date nights SO MUCH BETTER.  

pbskidsrokuFirst thing in the morning the kids watch a PBS learning show while we make breakfast and organize the day. No matter what time it is or what learning show the kids want to watch (Sesame Street, Word World, Nature Cat) the Roku device let’s us watch them on our schedule.  You can get a variety of free channels. For days when we can’t get outside our Homeschool Gym Class includes a Youtube Fitness Blender “Kids Move”.  I love my K-LOVE and Elevation Channels and listen to worship music and a Stephen Furtick sermon throughout the week.

Some channels you may want have a minimal monthly charge. We have Netflix and PureFlix.   Netflix Leap Frog Learning shows have helped my kids learn their alphabet, phonics, shapes, numbers, and now words and math so that time gets counted as part of HomeSchooling a couple times a week. Do you want a cheap but inspiring Date night?  Try a Pure Flix movie with your honey?  We love watching these uplifting movies.

Preparing dinner wouldn’t be the same if it weren’t for the Roku device.  My 6 year old and 3 year old can easily turn on their favorite learning show while my hands are messy making dinner. My Roku device also gets my house cleaned easier.  How?  I use their favorite Netflix show or movie as a reward for “getting our work done” on cleaning days.


It may sound like we watch a lot of TV, but in fact the kids watch less then 2 hrs a day and most of it is focused learning.  Before when we just had TV or Cable they ended up watching more and less quality TV.  The Roku gives us more control and specifics with the programming that goes into their little heads.  We estimate the device and channels we pay for saves us at least $300 a year compared to basic Cable TV and the Red Box Movies we used to get.   Plus the sanity and time savings is priceless.   


Roku was founded by CEO Anthony Woods the INVENTOR of the DVR. His company Roku which means 6 in Japanese is the 6th company Mr Woods has founded. Mr Woods has been instrumental in many of the amazing things we all enjoy including streaming movies.  As my husband investigated Roku and found it to be an amazing company filled with talented people.  He was excited for the chance to work there so he started the application and interview process.

It was a hard process. He went through some tough interviews and at several points we thought he was rejected.  But thanks to God, personal referrals, JOB DOMINATION, and lots of prayer he received his acceptance and approval letter October 11th, 2016.  

We all are extremely excited and of course nervous about this new adventure.  We are moving from the Privacy of the woods in a small town of 7000 people spread out over almost 600 square miles…. To  30,000 people packed into 11 square miles…..   WOW.  It is definitely going to be different.    The freedoms and lifestyle we enjoyed in Florida are going to be missed.  But it’s time to do hard things expanding our territory, learning, developing, and growing .  

When we stay in a comfort zone of convenience, routines, and sameness we don’t grow.  When we stretch ourselves to do something different, to use our talents and skills we grow and make the world a better place.

I am super proud of my husband.  He is a talented incredible genius of a man but he doesn’t like change.  He is stretching himself to take this leap of faith. He is applying his talents and growing his skills so he can make a difference for the company but more importantly for his family. His stepping out in faith will not only contribute to the success of Roku but ultimately change our family for generations.  His example to our children and wise stewardship of the financial blessings will change the trajectory of our future.  


Jay and I are looking forward to this new adventure with Roku.  We understand that what we are saying YES to is much more than a job.  

What decisions will you make today that will help you grow as a person? What risks will you take to change your future generations?  What talents are you not using right now?  What skills do you need to learn or sharpen to improve your life?    Are you willing to stretch yourself and grow?  We hope so.

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Fasting for Health


Have you heard of fasting? I am not talking about what Catholics do for 40 days of Lent but rather Fasting for Health. I first learned a great deal about fasting from leading experts in the Health and Nutrition world.  I would sit in those seminars and absorb as much as I could.  Initially the concepts of fasting were foreign to me but then I would experience it and see it’s benefits played out in my life and the lives of my friends, patients and clients.

I have written about my experiences with Juice Fasting Here and the Daniel Fast Here . I have done many Master Cleanse Fasts  prior to having children and intend to do and write about them in the next year. Some of you who follow me on Facebook saw my FaceBook Live about the Liver Cleanse I have done 6 times you can check it out under my videos here called Do you need to Cleanse ? 

Will Fasting make you Live Longer? 

But the Fasting I want to highlight today could be labeled more intermittent fasting or water fasting.  D Gary Young researched some of the longest living cultures in the world where he found a higher then average percentage of centenarians lived (people 100 years or older).  In these populations diets were deficient of processed foods and sugars. But uniquely many of these longest living cultures had a period of fasting throughout the year. This may have varied based on limited calorie intake to no food for days or weeks for religious reasons or simply limited food supplies due to long winters.

What the Research says about Fasting? 

There are many studies showing the benefits of fasting.  June 2014 Medical News Today article showed fasting 1 day of water only a week long term may reduce the risk of diabetes and heart disease among people at high disease risk. Interestingly I saw this benefit in an older Chiropractic Classmate who practiced this. He was stronger healthier and had more endurance then many of his decade younger classmates.

Cancer and Fasting

The University of Southern California in Los Angeles published in the journal of Cell Stem Cell, found longer periods of fasting 2-4 days may help to reboot the immune system, clearing out old immune cells and regenerating new ones. This study on mice was the first to show fasting could trigger regeneration of an organ or system through stem cell regeneration. These researchers also believe that fasting could protect against the damage caused by chemotherapy.

Now that study was on mice…… but my friend Mike the Miracle Welch took this concept and used it in his own protocols. During his days where he received Chemotherapy he would only have a liquid low calorie diet the Master Cleanse Drink and NingXia Red Juice. He received his Chemo on Tuesdays and Fridays at 6am. He would sustain himself on this liquid only diet until he got his appetite back around 9 or 10 pm at night where he would have a vegetarian salad of snow peas, avocados, romaine lettuce, cherry tomatoes and alfalfa sprouts. The results were that he didn’t miss a day of work and had minimal side effects from his chemo treatments. It is possible that Michael’s fasting protocol helped him but we must also tell you that Michael was also very anal with his clean eating, supplements and many other things he researched throughout his cancer treatments. But he wasn’t the only person I would meet that utilized some sort of Fasting throughout their Cancer recovery.

A Cancer Ministry 

Several years ago I met David and Megan Trombly. They have had a Cancer Ministry for more than 15 years. God put a call on their lives when David was diagnosed with a terminal cancer. Much like Mike the Miracle Welch they did extensive research when they were diagnosed. They invested hundreds of thousands into traveling the world and receiving cancer therapies. Their investment and trainings has given them a wealth of knowledge on healing the body. David has fully restored health today.

Part of their healing journey led them to learn about fasting. Each year both Megan and David do a 5-7 day Water Fast to help rejuvenate and cleanse.

I recently spent time with Megan at her home on her 5th day of Water Fasting. We went swimming with our kids, had great conversations, and she even sat at the dinner table while her daughter Grace prepared and served a delicious dinner. She wasn’t hungry or “Hangry” at all.

In This Video she share about how she does her Water Fasting




Gallons of clean filtered water per day. They like to add Young Living’s Vitality oils Grapefruit, Peppermint, or Lemon.


This fast includes two 5 Gallon Home Colonics 12 hours apart per day.

See 5 Gallon Colonic Here  (If you purchase one don’t forget to get replacement enema tips)

Cleansing Drink

5 Cleansing Drinks spaced out 3 hours apart.

Organic Apple Cleansing Drink Here is the Recipe:


4 oz of organic apple juice,

1 TBSP Sonne’s 7 (Liquid Bentonite Clay),

1 tsp ICP (Young Living Essential oils)


Take 6 capsules of Activated Charcoal with this drink every time

Drink entire drink immediately and refill shaker bottle with water to drink the residue and get more water in your system.


Here is what a schedule might look like for them

7am Drink

9am Colonic

10 am Drink

1pm Drink

4pm Drink

7pm Drink

9pm Colonic

With gallons of filtered water drank throughout the day


Coming off the cleanse

the day after your last day of the cleanse you would eat steamed carrots

Day 1 Post Fast: Steamed Carrots

Day 2 Post Fast: Steamed Carrots and Steamed Broccoli

Day 3 Post Fast: Vegetables based diet without grains or meat (Might I suggest MIRACLE SOUP)

Day 4 – and on Work your way back slowly to a diet that may include healthy grains and clean meats


They strategically plan their Fasts for times when they are not overly busy or traveling. They make sure to get plenty of rest and get sunshine. Some chores like cooking are delegated to older children. But for the most part Megan was living her normal pilot’s wife, church going, homeschooling, soccer mom, wellness coaching, and business leader life.

If you would like to set up a Consult with Megan or David email them at Consult fees range from $177 -$297 depending the type of consult you would like.


What do you think?

So you may be thinking right now…. Fasting that is crazy. I totally understand because I thought that initially until I started learning and doing these kinds of cleanses. I felt better, I had more energy, and I looked better. If some of the longest living cultures in the world benefit from fasting, and scientific research shows it’s benefits why not take the next step and research it yourself. Find a qualified Health Practitioner knowledgeable in intermittent fasting, nutrition, and cleansing and work with them to reach your optimal wellness.

For your Total Wellness;

Mary Starr Carter


The Total Wellness Doc and Mom

Dr Mary is a retired Chiropractor turned Wellness Writer.  She shares knowledge and experiences she has collected with her readers giving them help and hope for a healthier future. She is wife to an amazing IT genius and mother to 2 incredible children Sarah and Joshua so far.  Dr Starr homeschools which she says is by far the hardest and most rewarding task she has undertaken. She has worked part time for 17 years helping others grow successful wellness home businesses.   She is an aspiring healthy chef and hopes to release her new cookbook out by November 2016.



9.11 Tribute to Fallen Fighters CNY Memorial Climb


On September 11th, 2001 almost 3000 people were killed and 6000 injured in the four plane attacks. Most of us remember the footage of the World Trade Center as it played again and again. Hundreds of first responders came to rescue lives after the initial attacks. When the towers collapsed mostly civilians deceased working in WTC buildings but 411 emergency workers lost their lives in the tragedy of 9/11 too.

The days after 9/11 we hugged our loved ones tighter and cherished our own lives a bit more. But something else was born out of that day that has evolved into truly honoring 9/11 First Responders and a recognition of what all Emergency Workers provide for us daily. These events includes a climbing 110 flights of stairs in honor of the fallen rescuers around the annual anniversary of September 11, 2001.


The first known Memorial Stair Climb (climbing of one hundred and ten flights of stairs in full rescuer gear) was done by Firefighter Lieutenant Charles Cogburn who scaled a two story building 55 times wearing body armor, a helmet and an M-4 in Afghanistan. The following year he brought this climb back to the United States. Today more than 30 climbs happening across the United States and other countries on 9/11 anniversary.

A “Climb to Remember” the Central NY Memorial Stair Climb was held Friday September 9th at the Utica State Office Building, Utica NY. This event Commemorates those who lost their lives.


Firefighters and First Responders across Central NY can participate. Each participant is given a Fallen hero to climb for. They wear their pictures as badges around their necks and some display their hero on their back.










The Oswego Volunteer FireFighters recruited my husband to be a part of this event with them. They were suited with 26lbs of firefighter gear plus an additional 20 plus lb Scott pack was harnessed to their backs.oswegofiremen





Prior to the climb the men and women were inspired by speeches from two surviving 9/11 Firefighters. These survivors shook each participants hand as bagpipes played and the rescuers began their 110 floor challenge. It was physically demanding and exhausting but the rescuers didn’t give up. After they completed their 110 flights each rescuer rang a bell and put the picture of their fallen hero on the hero wall.rangbell

Jay Carter shares “Being a part of this event made 9/11 very real for me. The sacrifices these rescuers make. My fallen hero Joseph Maffeo had a 1 year old baby and wife he left behind. Every day first responders selflessly go to work for us. To save our children, our homes, our lives. I don’t think I was grateful enough for their work. The physical demands on their bodies, the toxins they expose themselves to, and the dangers are incredible. All firefighter and rescue personal selflessly do the hard things to save lives. For that I am very grateful.”

Special Thanks to WWW.MJSTUDIOSPHOTOGRAPHY.COM  for their beautiful photos of this event

No Day Shall Erase YOU From the Memory of Time


Healing for Lupus, Multiple Sclerosis, Chronic Fatigue, Rheumatoid Arthritis and more with the Wahl’s Protocol



This week in my son’s home school curriculum we learned about  Herbivores Carnivores and Omnivores. Basically Plant eaters, Meat Eaters, and animals that eat both Plant and Meat. At the same time I have been reading (or really listening to on Audible) The Wahl’s Protocol by Terry Wahls MD. It is a very interesting and intriguing way to heal the body to better health. Although I have learned many of these principals before and even written about them. I am convicted about healing myself and encouraging others at a much deeper level then I currently live and promote.

The book itself is written for those struggling with serious immune system diseases such as Multiple Sclerosis, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Lupus, and generally any serious illness or disease where the body attacks itself. There are even some examples of cancer patients having improved results on this protocol. Wahl’s Warriors (clients and patients who have changed their eating patterns to the Wahl’s protocol) state they have radically reduced or eliminated problems like fatigue, brain fog, pain and symptoms of their disease. Many Wahl’s Warriors have CURED themselves from their Dis-EASE altogether.

Is Vegetarianism causing your DIS-EASE?

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So back to Herbivores, Carnivores, and Omnivores. Dr Wahls and I both agree that humans were made to be Omnivores eating a balance of diverse plant life and free range, organic grass fed meat. She shares that she believes her years of being a vegetarian was a factor in her state of DIS-EASE. And I whole-heartedly agree with her opinions. For years I have had client after client, whose bad eating with low protein & fat diet or vegetarianism led to to symptoms of Anxiety, Depression, Psychosis, Suicide, Fatigue, Insomnia, Mental Fogginess, Rapid Aging, Diabetes, Infertility, and the list goes on.

Take Responsibility

If we don’t correct our poor eating we end up with a Diagnosis and Disease that we can now label and blame our symptoms, discomfort and poor quality of life on. Not understanding or taking responsibility for our part in the Dis-EASE.

Years of DEPLETION with poor eating is horrific on our bodies. Supplementing with good whole food nutritional supplements is helpful. In fact many depleted bodies will feel good or REALLY GOOD when they initially start taking supplements. Some persons need $300 plus dollars a month in good quality supplements to help improve the nutrition of a depleted system. But in some cases if not many the once awesome feeling begins to fade and not be as effective especially in cases where Diet and Food Nutrition are not improved.


Now I am talking to myself here too. I am one of those $300 a month Supplement takers, but I have found that when I eat clean (no sugar or junk food, balanced carbs, proteins, and fats with lots of veggies, and some fruit) I FEEL GREAT.  Add some exercise  in and I FEEL AWESOME. Limit my stress, use my essential oils, and get good quality sleep and I FEEL FABULOUS!

So here is my point. The Wahl’s Protocol  can change your life and heal your body. Most people though that change their eating feel better almost instantly and by that I mean a week or so.  But it will not be easy and it will take lots of time if not years if you are healing a chronic condition. This isn’t take a pill or eat these things and boom your body is changed.  It is whole life changes, healing an a deep level, and changing your future forever.

So I have asked myself this question and I am going to ask you too.  If I don’t make some serious changes in my health and wellness specifically with what I am eating how will the next 5, 10, or 25 years look like.  Will my fatigue  headaches, stiffness, joint pain, insomnia, depression, anxiety, irritability, weight problems (Fill IN THE BLANK)  get worse?  What about the quality of my life?  Will it affect my ability to play with the kids or grandkids ?  Will it affect my relationship with my spouse and loved ones?  Will I be able to have less and less fun because I just don’t feel good?   Will I be diagnosed with a DISEASE….  Will I cut my life short?

If you said YES to any of these questions of what your life would look like if you don’t change things. Then take the First Step Today and  BUY the BOOK !  Let’s take this First Step Together!

The Wahls Protocol: A Radical New Way to Treat All Chronic Autoimmune Conditions Using Paleo Principles

Share The Benefits and Save Money With Essential Oils

Save Money With Essential Oils

If you think you can’t afford essential oils, think again. What I’m going to share with you may surprise you and will save you money in the long-term. In fact, it may be your way of feeling better, gaining health using natural remedies and making money online part-time.

For the last fourteen years, I’ve worked with thousands of people just like you. Some are users of the essential oils and others are business builders of Young Living Essential Oils. They are using this business model to help others and ultimately reaping the benefits of health and financial rewards for themselves.

Do you know anyone who is waiting for the perfect opportunity or looking for ways to stay healthy naturally without harsh and expensive medication?

According to CHPA (Consumer Healthcare Products Association), 59% of Americans say they are more likely to treat their own health condition now, 73% would rather treat themselves at home than see a doctor, 62% say they would like to do more of this in the future.

Know anyone who is in one of those categories listed above? Maybe that someone is you.

More than ever, Americans are practicing self-reliance in self-healthcare. Of course there is no replacement to a physician. You and I are in control of minor health problems if we have reliable tools to use. There has never been a better time than now to get started with Young Living Essential Oils. From January 15 through February 28, new distributors can receive a free $40 product credit by just signing up and placing an order.

Here’s how:

One: Get one of the Start Living Kits
Two: Place an order of at least 100 PV ($100) and receive $40 credit towards any product of your choice instantly. Allow five business days for product credit to post to your account.

Three: Receive a $40 OFF diffuser coupon upon enrolling. For example if you want a home diffuser as shown, you will pay less than $60 instead of $100.

Four: Essential Rewards Program gives you the benefit of saving more money like reduced shipping cost, monthly or seasonal reduced prices for reward members only, earn redeemable points for FREE products of your choice and most of all the ability to earn commission.

This month, you will receive a Young Living Sharing Kit. For 185PV, you will receive four 5-ml oils including lavender, lemon, Purification and Thieves. Total savings $57.05.

Here are the benefits of the oils:
Save Money With Essential OilsLavender: Lavender has been treasured for centuries for its calming fragrance and skin-soothing qualities. Diffuse it, add a few drops to bathwater, or wear as a fragrance to create a tranquil environment and instill physical and emotional balance.

Lemon: An uplifting favorite, lemon is a versatile addition to any essential oil collection. Use it for everything from alleviating occasional feelings of anxiety to household cleaning.

Purification: Banish stale air, odors, and insects with Purification’s combination of six cleansing essential oils, including citronella, melaleuca, and rosemary. Diffuse, apply to skin, or drop onto cotton balls and place in air vents.

Thieves: Thieves combines clove, rosemary, cinnamon bark, lemon, and eucalyptus to help fight airborne bacteria when diffused and supports a healthy immune system when applied to the skin or taken internally.

Five: You are now officially an ESSENTIAL REWARD MEMBER and eligible to join our exclusive Health Investor Club for more rewards, tools and benefits exclusively for The Total Wellness Doc and Mom’s members. Members have to maintain 100 PV every month. You will get additional tips and tools from my tried-and-true methods of healing.

Six: Start using natural products for your home and replace toxic household items with essential oils. Two questions posted by a Huffington Post writer caught my attention, that is
“Why has the incidence of childhood cancers increased by about 40% over the past three decades?”
“Could it have anything to do with the cancer causing (carcinogenic) ingredients in personal care products targeting infants and children?”

I will not attempt to answer these questions because it requires an entire blog post. Please read the article on the above link.

Most personal care products can be homemade using natural ingredients and Young Living essential oils. You have a choice of saving a lot of money and living a healthier and natural lifestyle.

Seven: Give and share essential oils with friends and family. Your friends and family may be looking for an answer to their health and financial struggles. Give a gift of essential oils to celebrate birthdays or anniversaries. By sharing these products with friends and family you might save and change lives.

Are you ready to share and help someone live in a safer and healthier environment, breathe easier in cleaner indoor air, save money on medication or missed workdays? Could your answer or their answers be found in Young Living therapeutic grade essential oils? We are here to help. Let us know how we can help you save money with essential oils. For more information about essential oils or if you would like to learn to share essential oils go visit Wellness with Essential Oils


Disclaimer: This information is not meant to diagnose, prescribe, treat or cure any illness or disease. It’s strictly for informational, educational, or entertainment purposes ONLY. The products I talk about are not meant to diagnose, prescribe, treat or cure any illness or disease. Any information I give you about them is for informational or entertainment purposes only. They have not been evaluated or approved by the FDA. Please seek the qualified health professional of your choice when making health decisions for yourself, your family and your pets.

Are you hurting?

Like many of you I couldn’t sleep last night worrying about this storm and friends and family in it’s path.  Every time my head hit the pillow I would dream about being near the Jersey shore (one of my favorite places) and trying to escape this storm.   You can tell I watched a little bit too much news these past few days.  

This horrible natural disaster reminds us that the storms of life will hit us all.  Everyone will experience pain, loss, or disaster sometime in their life.  It’s what we do with that loss that makes us or breaks us. 

You may be someone that just lost their home, lost a child, lost a job, or has had a marriage end.  Your heart may be full of pain, anger, hurt, resentment, frustration, and sadness.   It may feel unbearable and like a deep abyss.  But I am here to tell you, encourage you, and remind you that there is a Redeemer that will bring all that you lost back to you 100 fold.  There is a Healer that can heal your broken heart, broken body and broken spirit.  There is a Savior who will make all things new again, and bring peace where hate once lived. 

I have seen hundreds of people RENEWED in the grace of Jesus Christ.  I have witnessed bodies healed, hearts mended, relationships restored, $10,000 of thousands of dollars come out of nowhere to families.  I have seen miracles.

Today I want to encourage you  to give up your hurt to Him. To let go and God take care of the pain.  Ask Him to come into your heart and give you the peace that passes all understanding.  Because if you do….. YOU WILL BE SHOCKED at what lies ahead of you. 

Last year my husband and I lost 2 babies. On Christmas day 2011 I lay in a hospital bed waiting for the surgeons to remove Baby Jesse from me.   I asked God to take this pain, hurt, and heartache from me and what happened next was like nothing you could imagine.  I immediately felt the heaviness leave my body and this incredible peace fall upon me.   The nervousness and anxiety of surgery and being exposed to powerful drugs was gone.  Honestly even before they gave me any medications it felt like I was on a sedative.  After surgery the pain they said I would experience simply wasn’t there.  That peace is still in my heart and although I still mourn for the children I lost I am renewed. 

Tomorrow I will be 19 weeks pregnant.  God has renewed me, restored what I have lost, and healed me and He can do the same for you.  So pray for Jesus Christ to come into your heart. Pray for your miracle.  Pray for the Peace that passes all understanding.  

I love you and pray for your healing too!

Mary Starr Carter

The Total Wellness Doc and Mom 

Disclaimer: This information is not meant to diagnose, prescribe, treat or cure any illness or disease. It’s strictly for informational, educational, or entertainment purposes ONLY. The products I talk about are not meant to diagnose, prescribe, treat or cure any illness or disease. Any information I give you about them is for informational or entertainment purposes only. They have not been evaluated or approved by the FDA. Please seek the qualified health professional of your choice when making health decisions for yourself, your family and your pets.

Life is hard but hold on


Don't Give Up Hope 

A short message by Dr. Mary Starr


Life is hard but Hold On!

My friend Sarah opened the door to her home that had days before been burned almost completely. I will never forget that smell. They lost everything material they owned including their family dog. But they survived along with their children, and although she was in shock she was holding on to something greater than her.


Johnna had bottomed out. All her retirement she had been living on was gone, she was forced to move back in with her ex-husband, she had nothing but a part time job that paid her sporadically. Yet she was not defeated, she held on. She knew deep down she would not only survive she would thrive.

Sean had everything, an amazing job, a new baby, a wonderful wife, a huge quarter of million dollar home, a new truck. Everything until one day it happened. He lost his job, benefits, and retirement. But unlike many others who would let this devastate them he didn't. He stayed positive and held on to Faith.

I remember that day in my own life when my family was ripped apart by lies and deceit. The hardest day of my life but something inside of me gave me the strength to push forward and go on.

Today I understand that that strength to move forward, go on, keep living even when everything around falls is really a strength greater than all things. It is FAITH.

I pray that you will find that FAITH not just when you need it but everyday. It makes life not just bearable but marvelous.


Our team is here for you. Let us know if you have specific needs that we can pray for you. And remember Life is Hard but Hold on.



I appreciate you,


Dr. Mary Starr Carter


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Financial Support Systems before you need them

Setting up a Support System

before you need it. 

Tool 1 & 2 :

Your Resources

and Financial Support System



Since 2008 I have been serving a special niche of clients who have serious health issues that require me to live with them for a few days or a few weeks. During the time I spend with them I set up support systems for their physical health and train other family members to perform some of the healing techniques they will need during their recovery. I learned from both my local clients and these live in clients that without Financial, Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual Support Systems most people will fail to recover completely.

Here are the first of the Support Systems to Set up before you NEED THEM. 

It is said by the age of 25 an average person knows or has met 2000 people. Your first support tool may sound extreme but it is a tool I have used in many areas of life.

Tool #1: Your Resource List : Your resource list is a written out list of 200 of friends, family members and acquaintances.

Be sure to get as many addresses phone numbers and emails as possible on your list. Having several copies will be important if something happens and you need help.

Tip #1 : I encourage you to connect with your resources before you need them. See how they are doing, if they are in need or if there is anything you can do for them. As Guy Kawasaki says, “Help others before you need their help.” Here is a link to print out a blank Resource list that we use in business but you can use here too. Knowing who your resources are important to your entire Support System Set up.

Our second Tool comes from the fact that without a plan way to many people run into hot water when they lose income, can not work, or an unforseen disaster comes their way. Maxing out credit cards or worse utilizing pay day loans can get people into hot water.

Tool # 2 : Your Financial Support System

Tip #2:  Start a Health Savings Plan . Talk with financial experts about a Health Savings fund that you could utilize for Specialty treatments. Most Natural Health Sessions and some Specialty Doctors are not covered under even the best insurances.

Tip #3:  Utilize Tax Deductions for Medical Expenses, Supplementation, Foods, Conferences, Mileage and more. (talk to a Good Tax Professional ahead of time so you know what counts and what doesn't)

Tip #4: Invest in Wellness Care and Nutritional Supplementation.  It has been proven over and over that regular Chiropractic Care, Massage Therapy and Exercise Classes not only can keep your body healthy and happy longer but also can save you lots of money on sick care. Insurance Companies are even offering discounts and kickbacks for those who participate in Wellness Care, Gym Memberships, and even take regular Supplementation.


Tip #5: Consider the Good Debt Bad Debt Principal. If you hurt your back and $350 of Chiropractic Care can get you back working in 3 weeks versus 3 months of being out of work wouldn't investing on a credit card the $350 be worth it so you could make back that money quicker vs continue to lose income.

Tip #6:  Save some of your PTO (Paid Time off ,Vacation or Sick Days) every year from work. Then if something happens it is a little less stressful on everyone and if you don't use them you get more time off in December.

Tip #7) Credit Cards versus Low Interest Person to Person Loan:  If it comes to having to use Credit Card debt to pay expenses you would be surprised at how many people out there are willing to offer lower interest loans versus 24% high interest credit cards and even worse Pay Day Loans. Start asking people on your Resource list if before you take on a loan with 24% interest if they would be interested in a 10% loan agreement. I bet you can't get through the first 100 people without finding someone who is willing to do that.

Tip #8:  Consider a Home Business Before or After: I always see this fund-raiser or that fund-raiser for individuals who have serious illness and are in financial need. Although I think these things are important for social and community support I don't believe they raise the income a home business could do passively in most cases. A home business either started in their name or something someone ill could work from home who is not receiving disability could significantly change their financial stress.

Tip #9: Financial Understanding : Make sure if you have a spouse that they understand and can take care of the finances if you become disabled. If you are single be sure your have what I call a Financial Proxy (a person you trust and you have clearly explained your financial records or how to access them just in case). Or even a Power of Attorney. Power of Attorney is a legal document giving the authority to act for another person in legal or financial matters.

Tip #10: Savings for a Time like This:  Some financial experts say you need at least 3 months of household expenses in your savings others say 6 months and even others say two years.  I don't know all I do know is the clients who don't have to worry about their financial status very much when health challenges come are the ones to recover the quickest.

I appreciate you taking the time to read about these Tools for your Health Crisis Support Systems, but more importantly I would feel much better if you started implementing them before you need them.  

Thank you.  

Dr. Mary Starr 


Dr. Mary Starr Carter has worked with thousands of clients from terminally ill and chronic diseases to those who are healthy and want vibrant health.  She has counseled hundreds of families who had given up hope find simple safe solutions. Known as the Total Wellness Doc she looks at all aspects of health to help someone overcome disease.    She specializes in difficult cases like Fibromyalgia,  Hormone and Adrenal issues, Asthma, Diabetes and Chronic pain.


We publish newsletters and blogposts twice a week for our readers for general education purposes only. We cover topics that are related to achieving and maintaining total wellness which includes our emotional, physical, spiritual and financial health.

What if your Health Failed you…. the Importance of a Support System

What would happen if your health failed you?
The importance of a Support System

The formal definition of a support system is a network of personal and professional contacts available to a person or organization for practical or moral support when needed.

My definition a support system are individuals that provide professional or practical assistance to you in times of need.

I have had to rely on my support system quite a bit during some recent health challenges, so I know the subject of support systems all to well.
I have learned that having help is not a sign of weakness or laziness but rather a way to eliminate stress, allow your body to heal and when I am healthy be more productive to do my main jobs.

What would you do if tomorrow you were bed ridden and could not go to work, pick up your children, or fix your own meals ?

Do you have the support systems in your life to survive or even flourish?

The end of March 2010 I spent 4 days in labor at a hospital with sleep only lasting 20 minutes at a time. After the birth I started to hemorrhage and lost enough blood to need to be given fluids. After a few visitors I got a full night's rest. The rest along with the fluids  made me feel like a million bucks ………artificially………….. or so I thought compared to how I felt with no sleep.  So feeling good I decided I would make the decisions about how long I stayed in the hospital because I was a doctor.  So I strong armed them in letting me go home 24 hrs after the birth. What a BIG MISTAKE !! 

The first night home I refused help and said I would care for my son all night. My milk was not coming in so me and Joshua were becoming stressed out. To make a long and very painful lesson short for several weeks I contributed to the deterioration of my body and mind by trying to “Stay in Control” and not allowing help.

14 months later I still was not 100% and unfortunately just suffered a miscarriage. But I know this too is in God's plan and His lessons for me.
When you lose your health or have an incident where you are not able to “do it all” having a support system in place is crucial.

After our recent miscarriage just a few phone calls and emails allowed people to fill-in and help with our businesses, classes, lectures, cleaning ,cooking, child care, our emotional and spiritual health, and physical recovery. What a difference this all made for me for getting on the road to Total Wellness!

Now think about your Support Systems… What are they? Next article we will look at how to Set up a Support System before you need it :Tips and Tools to get you through the hard times , Physically, Emotionally and Spiritually.

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Mystery Pain Part I (Video Blog)


Today's Video Blog is part of our Mystery Pain series.  Pain can be very complicated and mysterious.  I remember this poor man who came to see me years ago after being in agony pain for months. He had this awful groin pain that wouldn't got away.   The culprit of his pain was …….  Watch the Video and Find out.


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Ouch That Hurts

I have been in pain this past week after pulling some muscles in my shoulder blade.  As the mother of a 1 year old healing this injury is not easy when you are picking up your 24lb son dozens of times a day.  “Ouch that really does hurt.”  But I started to think of all my clients and those of you out there who are parents and in pain.  This is NOT FUN….

But now I am thinking of all the conditions my clients struggle with everyday, especially my Fibromyalgia Clients.

Back Pain,

Neck and Shoulder Pain,

Joint stiffness,

Headaches and Migraines

Dealing with pain without children is one thing but with children must be awful.  In fact, Heather Maidment who shares her story of recovering from Fibromyalgia at 2011-01-30_14-08-41_560.3gp   dealt with that very thing.  Can you imagine being in so much pain that it hurt if your children hugged or even touched you?  I can't. 

My professional career has been spent treating and teaching people to get out of pain since 1999.  Yet it took me 3 days to remember to do that for myself.  Don't wait any longer. Try something that is simple and safe.  I used Deep Relief Roll on.  I rolled it on my neck and shoulder and the pain diminished by 60% in just 2 minutes.  A couple hours later I needed it again but this time it worked even better.  Compare this to my husband rubbing my shoulder for 20 minutes and the oils did much better.

At the Total Wellness Doc we offer many solutions that may reduce or eliminate your pain.   Here is a story that came in this week from Yanina Rivera who used Panaway essential oil.  

 These oils have me speechless…wow!   I forgot this was part of my Young Living Essentials everyday oils… I used it on my arthritic ankles (horrible flare up this weekend) and unexplainable swollen red bump on between knee and ankle… swelling went down, improved circulation and pain. Satisfied customer once again.


When I was first learning and experimenting with Therapeutic Essential oils I had a Landlord come to me with terrible knee pain.  He told me he had been taking Celebrex for over 6 months and it was really “tearing up”  his stomach.   So I asked him if I could try the Panaway oil.  I applied 6-10 drops all on the knee and then behind the knee, and down the leg.  A month later I got an email from my landlord telling me he has been out of knee pain since that day and he got rid of his Celebrex and his stomach was doing much better. 

Research and Safety

Thousands of dollars have been poured into research of the develop and quality preparation of these essential oil  blends.  Although more costly that an aspirin the benefits and safety are worth it!  Both Panaway and Deep Relief  essential oil blends are great to keep in your arsenal of health products.  I'd even suggest to keep them on you or near by.

If you struggle with pain every day these blends are safe to use daily. We know many pain drugs when used long term have damaging or addictive side effects.  Even over the counter Tylenol, Aspirin and Ibuprofen have been shown to  stress or damage the liver, kidneys or stomach with daily use.  Hundreds of our clients have used these oils with no side effects because they are safe.    

How do you use Deep Relief or Panaway: 

Deep Relief comes in a Roll on so you can simply roll on the area of pain and rub in with your hands or not.   The oil will absorb into the skin within a minute or two.

Panaway can be applied straight or put into a base of pure vegetable or olive oil and rubbed into the area of pain. 

With both oils You will start to feel the deep penetrating tingly action which can last up to 30 minutes.  Even after the cooling sensation is gone many times the pain levels will remain decreased.  

I suggest you combine the oils with a light massage, Chiropractic or if you are getting any other from of therapy.  The combination should enhance your results. 

If you would like to try Panaway or Deep Relief visit or call our office directly at 315-883-1943.  Good luck and let us know your stories of getting out of pain in our comment section below or post it on Facebook at   Mary Starr Parmley Carter  . 

Thank you,

Dr. Mary Starr 


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One Woman’s Journey from 310 lbs to 130 lbs

Gastroplasty including lap band surgery or stomach stapling is a restrictive operation for weight control.  Both a band and staples are used to create a small stomach pouch so you physically can not eat large quantities at a time and it slows down the passage of food.
Here is part of one women's journey of 180lb weight release with this.
Interview with Karen Twomey
In 1987 a 310lb Karen Twomey had stomach stapling and released 110lbs in a year. In the next 21 years she would release a total of 180lbs. In the 24 years since the surgery Karen has been through more than most would want in their life. Including divorce and care-taking for her second husband until his death.
“At first I used the Stomach stappling as a tool to release the bulk of my weight. It's been 24 year long journey and I have learned a lot about myself through the journey.   At first  I used exercise to keep the weight off.  Later I started lifting weights to lift my husband when I was caring for him when he was ill. After many years on this journey I realized that weight lifting and exercise are keys for keeping off the weight but also other things.” Today Karen says she also uses good outlook, no dieting just common sense to maintain her weight.
What would you say to someone who was considering stomach stapling, gastric bypass, lapband surgery?
“50% of of people who get gastroplasty succeed. That means 1 out of 2 are failing. That is a big number.“ Even though gastroplasty creates a physical limitation allowing the recipient to eat only a small amount at a time. Karen says, “ People find a way around the limitation and can gain back the weight.” Finding out what her eating triggers were    was a key to Karen's success.
Understanding Why you Eat
Karen says; “I learned what triggers me and what I can do to stop a trigger. I was an emotional eater not a food addict there are definitely two differences. I remember I had a friend who passed  and I went out and bought all the foods I used to eat. Sweet, salt for comfort. Then I looked and realized I was trying to fill the pain. This was the first time I realized I was an emotional eater.”
One Addiction for another
For me exercise became an addiction until I would find balance in it.  Karen is right many gastoplasty patients transfer their food addiction to something else.
October 24th 2006 episode of Oprah Winfrey showed 30% of this addiction transfer to alcohol.   This is why it is so important to find root causes of our food addiction. At we are committed to helping you find root causes.
Support Groups
When you are off track you slip into old patterns. Patients are now told prior to surgery that gastroplasty is just tool. That diet, exercise and lifestyle changes are the key to success but Karen highly recommends those who have this procedure to be in a local gastroplasty support group for at least 6 years.   Support groups have helped Karen and 24 years later she still attends meetings.
Karen was determined she would not fail. She had baby and says for her, “it was life or death.” I believe it is that determination that encouraged her to not give up, to learn about herself, and solutions for wellness. She is an example to any of us who are on the path to better health through her constantly learning and growing.
“It has been a journey. Every year I am learning more about myself and my relationship with food. To make it a healthy one not a destructive one. Food is something we need to exist. You have to maintain a good relationship with food.”
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Understanding Fibromyalgia

I remember when I saw Fibromyalgia for the first time. I mean really saw it. It was 1999  I was still in Chiropractic school and a class mates wife had been diagnosed. I remember how exhausted he looked everyday. He would share, “my wife had a good night last night” or “my wife had a bad night last night.” I remember that they had to move where they lived because she was losing the ability to do stairs, and was extremely sensitive to mold and mildew. He ended up failing several classes and I am not sure he even got his degree. This was the first time I realized the impact Fibromyalgia had on the entire family.

About a year later I met Mary Moeller the author of Fibromyalgia Cookbook; A Daily Guide to Becoming Healthy Again and other articles and books of overcoming Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue.   This two hour lecture would change my life.  

For weeks I talked to anyone who would listen about what I had learned. Through her training I learned about  yeast and Candida and the effects on our health. I reported some of this information in an essay I wrote for one of our nutrition classes but sadly it would be about another 5 years before the professor would come into agreement with this information. This was the first lesson that even in Alternative, Nutritional and Holistic Health Care practitioners can be years behind scientific and clinical research.

In 2001 I began training with a pioneer in natural health and the nutrition field and would soon find that most of what I would learn would take even the Holistic Practitioners about 2-4 years to begin using these things. It was at these cutting edge trainings where I would begin to meet more and more individuals healed from Chronic Fatigue and Fibromyalgia.  

From 2003- 2006 I began to see a large number of cases of Fibromyalgia at our Wellness Center.  We utilized some of the cutting edge therapies and treatments I had learned about.  The results were promising but disappointing. Clients would get 30-60% improvement in their symptoms, but if they stopped coming many times we would have to start all over. I didn't know then that I was missing a piece of the puzzle.

I worked harder and harder giving my patients everything I had until my health started to be affected  Not unlike many practitioners I was not caring for my body as I needed to. But this lessons would  give me an understanding how ones health could deteriorate without you really noticing.  

In 2007 my eyes became open to a missing piece of the puzzle.  It was a HUGE piece that I thought I had before but didn't. I began to incorporate this missing piece of the puzzle in 2008 and WOW did I start seeing healing after healing after healing. My practice soon evolved and I started working with clients from all over the world through phone consultation. Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue syndrome clients have been the majority of my clients for the past 5 years.     

In 2010 I had a God appointed health challenge that would again give me great compassion for my clients and lead me to find another missing piece of the puzzle for them and me.  

I know that I know that I know there are answers for those suffering. Here is a message I would like to share with you from a woman who has recovered from the symptoms of Fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue, Lupus and much more. It is my gift to you that you too may learn some missing pieces of the puzzle for your health.

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Fibromyalgia Seriously

Fibromyalgia Pain is a complex and unique problem with 100 or more different solutions. That is right– I said solutions. Maybe you are thinking I have tried everything; you don’t know what you are talking about Dr. Starr, there is no solution for my pain. I just have to live with it.

Well I would kindly like to disagree. In the almost 15 years of working in the health industry and meeting thousands of people in pain and hundreds with the diagnosis of fibromyalgia, I have seen and continue to see more and more people break free of this diagnosis FIBROMYALGIA.

Maybe you have heard these horrific words from your doctor; “It is all in your head”, “You need to seek psychiatric help.” “I am putting you on an anti-depressant.” WRONG. WRONG. WRONG.

Fibromyalgia pain is real and serious.

Why do Doctors write off this condition? I believe the reason is because it is a very difficult and challenging puzzle to solve that usually needs different and holistic approaches versus pharmaceutical drugs.

If you had a mechanical problem with your Porsche would you go to Cole Muffler or Wal-Mart to get it fixed? No, you would go to a shop that specializes in fixing your Porsche. Many times we go to a General M.D. or a specialist that may not be skilled in treating your condition. Don’t get me wrong, we need Physicians but they are not God. They have limitations in their knowledge and skill. One doctor said “I hope my patients get mad that there aren’t any traditional medical solutions, which they will go out and seek better ways of getting health!”

How can you find help with your condition?

1. Know the Result you want. Is it to reduce your pain, to get off medications, to be pain free. Know the result you want before looking for help.

2. Interview your specialist, whether it is a physician or natural health practitioner Here are a few questions to ask:

Out of all your clients what percentage of clients do you see that have fibromyalgia?

What percentage see ______________________ (the results you want to see).

How long does it take the average client to see __________ results?

At The Total Wellness Doc 65% of our clients have been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and 90% of the rest of our clients have fibromyalgia type symptoms like joint pain.

Out of those who follow directions 100% get some sort of result including reduced pain, no pain, reduced medications, active lifestyle again, improved moods, weight loss, improved sleep and the list goes on.

3. Now Follow Directions

Once you have decided to work with a practitioner follow the instructions. Those who follow instructions get better results, plain and simple. Better yet those who follow instructions with a good attitude do even better.

If you need to drink a gallon of water then drink a gallon of water. If you need to reduce or eliminate your sugar, do it.

On a personal note I struggle myself with following directions. As I know most of you do. But when I follow my own health directions boy oh boy do I FEEL AMAZING! So I don’t know everything, all I know is if you want to improve your health then follow instructions.

4. Be Consistent

Many nutritional changes, supplementation and therapeutic techniques will take time to start to make changes in your body. Give it at least 6 weeks before you make a decision. If you are still skeptical I encourage you to have an open mind and get results. Some of you will need a consistent 6 months to regain your health. Just don’t give up.

*Healing takes time, energy, and money*

Time: Understand that getting healthy does not happen overnight. Many of you took years to get in this condition and it will take years to fully recover.

Energy: Some days it is going to take all the energy and willpower you have to keep with it, whether it is preparing a special meal or getting the exercise in you need. It may mean letting go of some responsibilities or hobbies to devote to your health program.

Money: Getting healthy will have costs. Most reputable practitioners or products are not getting rich on you. But in the case of Fibromyalgia it will take an investment to get better. Set aside a health budget and understand if you choose to use natural medicine and nutrition that it will most likely not be covered by your insurance.

Out of all the sufferers reading this I know some of you will not want to take the time, energy, or money it takes to get better. Others will do partial programs or get on track for short periods of time. It is all okay. We are each individual and have the right to make choices.

At the Total Wellness Doc we don’t judge your commitment level. None of us is perfect nor do we want to be. But if you are ready to get healthy, make some strides in your health, then we are here to serve you.

We have a special gift worth $197. A 4 part audio series and Action Guide about Fibromyalgia and how to affectively deal with sleep, anxiety, pain, energy, and much much more. Plus if you are registered at you will receive a bonus audio that will shock you. I am not going to tell you what it is yet. Stay tuned.


We publish newsletters and blogposts twice a week for our readers for general education purposes only. We cover topics that are related to achieving and maintaining total wellness which includes our emotional, physical, spiritual and financial health.

Life without Gluten Can still be fun!

Here is a little snippet of an upcoming Blog about Gluten Intolerance.  Gluten is a component of grains and cereals.  Most commonly known to be in wheat products it can also be found in everything from ice cream to ketchup.  New research shows that gluten intolerance could be affecting the health of more than 5% -10% of Americans.

Here is one women's story who has the most severe case of gluten intolerance called Celiac Disease. 

Click below to watch the video.


We publish newsletters and blogposts twice a week for our readers for general education purposes only. We cover topics that are related to achieving and maintaining total wellness which includes our emotional, physical, spiritual and financial health.